It's my 25weeks

          Today when to Putra Hospital nearby my house for UltraSound scanning. And there, my baby show above. The doctor say my baby grow well and complete and very active. When the doctor scanned on my baby, my baby just kicked non stop. M not sure is it because my baby felt excited or shy......

            I can felt the kick mostly morning and evening. And it really hard. But M excited to feel the kick because I know my baby is healthy and active. But even I sit quietly, my baby will kick me also, not one time but really bouncing. Oh My..... every time my baby kick, I will want to go to toilet. I felt very troublesome but on the other hand, I just can't wait to welcome my baby to our world. I keep on imagine, how my baby will look like? And everyone will ask me "Is it a Boy or Girl?" Well, for me, I want my baby to be healthy will do.
I just can't wait to hug my baby.....


               Y'day I went to government hospital for check up. The nurses over there very friendly. Most of my friends will felt surprise Y m chose to give birth at Government Hospital even there's so many negative rumors about them. Frankly, other Hospital I might need to consider but Sg Buloh Hospital, I put my trust on them because my father-in-law and Jacky cousin experience there. Well, it much more better than we thought. Oh yeah....back to topic, I went to have appointment with them again next month for MGGT test.

               What is MGGT??? Well, it was the blood test for Diabetes. The procedure is like this, fasting for 8 hours and and take a tube of blood just like above photo. Then I need to drink a glass of sweet drink which is very very sweet till I want to vomit. After finish the glass of sweet drink, I need to sit there for 2 hours and retake the blood again same value. Then wait a week for the result. That why I need more blood.......

            

Our trip to Port Dickson

          
             Jacky and I decided to bring them to Port Dickson were a "Mistake." Y do I say so??? Well, can u imagine a group of monkey eaten "belaccan" and their reaction. Yah... they just non stop making noise and shouting and so excited with the trip. The oldest will be 18 years and the younger will be 13 years old. Oh My Gosh.... How to accept a group of students like that. Hahaha.... But v have to admit that they are still innocent.

               I taught them to play "unlock" game. Too bad.. the group not big enough but M still able to make them enjoyed. These kids just believe in me and Jacky. They share with us no matter is about school or personal life. M not sure it's a good things o not. But luckily these kids still respect us. When I saw them so enjoyed, M also happy especially just like one my them called me after they collected their exam result and they do improved. Because of that, I decided to bring them for travel to rewards their hardworking. Not too expensive but enjoyable.

 

            At night, after dinner we went to the nearby Store to buy grocery. Well, of course they don't know what we planning to do. They thought they can in-charge at night. Hehehe.. Jacky and I have a devil planned. We bought varieties of drinks and they bought varieties of junk food. When v reached the apartment, everyone relaxed for the tiring day they had went thru but one of them just can't wait to be torture. Hahaha.. V started the game and look at them.... I believe the game do give them unforgettable night. 

   
            On the next day, they do requested to stay one more night but V cannot over pampered them that Y never promise them. For me, I don't simply say "yes" to them because I want them to know how to be satisfied. If they non-stop request and I keep on say "Yes", they will never learn how to be satisfied. That why, they say M very hard and not like Jacky. I don't mind how they say, watever I done, is for their own good. And there, out trip end and v leaving the place and "Home Sweet Home"...........

If the upper beam is not straight, the lower ones will go aslant.

                    If the upper beam is not straight, the lower ones will go aslant. What does it mean? It means When the parents do not set a good example, the children cannot be expected to behave well. I believe that. That why, Jacky and I try to set a good attitude and behavior.Whatever I say will actually effect the baby on my tummy. M now 5 months in pregnancy, he/she start to alert. So I have to beware of my language. But I just can't avoid myself to say that "生番薯" word especially when Jacky try to make me laugh. My mother-in-law was asking me to quit that habits. I told my mother-in-law, I will try. She was making funny statement like "If not the baby 1st word will be 生番薯 instead of mama or papa." Hahaha.... 

              Jacky don't allowed me to watched my favorite channel which is National Geographic, Animal Planet and similar channel to avoid me to see them (Monkey). He heard someone say that, whatever m look at now will actually effect the baby features. So I have to look at something beautiful like baby poster which he haven't found one to hang at our room. My uncle past me the baby poster before but I rejected it because the baby with small eyes just like his baby Ah Mong. hahaha.... anyway thanks to his kindness. I know the teenager like Jay Chow but I still prefer LeeHon..... hahaha... I believe u get what I mean. 

      We also get to know that, the good music will help to train baby in the tummy. If listen to very noisy song like hip-hop or rock will actually built bad temper baby. If u listen to classical song like Beethoven it might built up an elegant baby, but if u listen to piano or soft music will built up inactive child. Well for me, I don't really to be choosy. I asked Jacky to play the music every night till m fall a sleep. Whatever song I think is nice, will just listen to it.

           All we have in our mind is our baby. We planned and worked everything is for the baby future. We want to give the baby the best but we have to face a challenge in future. We can't actually expect the baby will be what we expect but we will try our best to train the baby to be the best. Not in the sense like academy or sports or activities to be the best. We were saying about living, to be meaningful in future and to be love. That why, I believe communication is very important. And it have to start now. Whatever I think, will actually effect the baby attitude. 

Babies....

My nephew. He is 10 months old.

             Before when I looked at the baby, I got the feeling of rejection..... I scared they will scream and cry. Coz it will be very annoying and I hate those voice. The above photo is my nephew, his voice super loud. When he want something he will shout till U surrender and gave him everything he want. When I looked at him like that, M so worry that my kid will be like him. Even my hubby also started to get worry. We both looked at each other, and remind each other not to over spoil the baby. Always keep it on mind. We even plan how to communicate with the baby. Not too over protect the baby. This is how we survey thru other ppl baby.

Do u c the tear drop at the corner of his eyes? He don't like stranger that Y he start to "act" cry.

           2nd example we get from our family member. This is Jacky cousin baby. He is now 1 year plus. He scare of stranger and he will get irritating when crowded. He will force himself cry out loud to get his nanny or parent attention to get him out of here. The funny part is, when his nanny or parents hug him, he will definitely  wave his hand "bye bye" on the spot that he is leaving. But when he is not crowded, he will show his cool face. Why I say so? U know, when kids saw some funny reaction, they will laugh out loud or they will show funny face. He is different. He only show one face which is below one.

               No matter how hard u try to get him smile. He just show u the same mood which is "cool attitude." When my hubby and I saw his situation, we also get worry. I told my hubby, I want happy cute baby. Like to laugh and not afraid of stranger.  Hahaha... but my mother in law say, "Don't say that, whatever U don like it will become reality." So I better keep my mouth shut. Don't compare and judge coz I want something different. So what I will do, have more funny movie and cartoon where I can laugh out loud. Built up my cheerful attitude hope it will take effect on the baby.

      

Before and After

Dad comment on my photo "before and after"pinched my heart.  This photo were taken in yr 08 Dec.

          This photo were taken in year 2008 at Singapore. Just only 2 years, the changes too big even myself also can't accept it. Especially when my dad comment that "before and after in 2 years time". Oh my, I didn't realize the changes so big, it just look like it take at least 5 years to become who am I now. When I show my photo to my hubby, he though this was taken when M 23 or 24. But now m look like 30 over plus. Before those kids will call me Jie Jie and now they call me aunty.

This was taken on 2010 Nov at Penang. Can u believe that?

                     The above photo was taken on 2010 Nov at Penang. Frankly, I didn't make up and didn't apply any moisturizer. Is it because M lazy? I think ya. All the while m not really good taking care of my skin even my friends also can't tolerate to see me like that. Beside my tummy getting bulky, my nose growing bigger and my skin drying up. And of coz my hair getting thicker and oily than before. That y, I didn't used 2 in 1 or 3 in 1 shampoo. My hubby suggest to cut my hair but I don't want to look like ..u know.. more aunty. After this photo... thanks to my brother in law.... who always take the "real photo" to show the real us... I decided to change ... I want to change to beauty mom even I have bulky tummy but of coz not going to depend on makeup but inner beauty.

              Whenever M look into the mirror, I will start mumbling and tell my hubby "I should Keep Fit before m pregnant. Look at me now... m look so super fat." He will laugh at me and say "what do u expect when u pregnant, do u think pregnant lady can't keep slim." I started to get annoying and give a long "sigh". He will come to me and say "U look very pretty even U look bulky. I feel so proud and happy." When he say so, I felt relief and happy. From the way he kiss me and hug me, I know he really happy to have me. And he didn't entertained me just to let me feel better. When he say so, I feel more confidence with my tummy and show my happiness to others "so called show off"..hahahah...