If the upper beam is not straight, the lower ones will go aslant.

                    If the upper beam is not straight, the lower ones will go aslant. What does it mean? It means When the parents do not set a good example, the children cannot be expected to behave well. I believe that. That why, Jacky and I try to set a good attitude and behavior.Whatever I say will actually effect the baby on my tummy. M now 5 months in pregnancy, he/she start to alert. So I have to beware of my language. But I just can't avoid myself to say that "生番薯" word especially when Jacky try to make me laugh. My mother-in-law was asking me to quit that habits. I told my mother-in-law, I will try. She was making funny statement like "If not the baby 1st word will be 生番薯 instead of mama or papa." Hahaha.... 

              Jacky don't allowed me to watched my favorite channel which is National Geographic, Animal Planet and similar channel to avoid me to see them (Monkey). He heard someone say that, whatever m look at now will actually effect the baby features. So I have to look at something beautiful like baby poster which he haven't found one to hang at our room. My uncle past me the baby poster before but I rejected it because the baby with small eyes just like his baby Ah Mong. hahaha.... anyway thanks to his kindness. I know the teenager like Jay Chow but I still prefer LeeHon..... hahaha... I believe u get what I mean. 

      We also get to know that, the good music will help to train baby in the tummy. If listen to very noisy song like hip-hop or rock will actually built bad temper baby. If u listen to classical song like Beethoven it might built up an elegant baby, but if u listen to piano or soft music will built up inactive child. Well for me, I don't really to be choosy. I asked Jacky to play the music every night till m fall a sleep. Whatever song I think is nice, will just listen to it.

           All we have in our mind is our baby. We planned and worked everything is for the baby future. We want to give the baby the best but we have to face a challenge in future. We can't actually expect the baby will be what we expect but we will try our best to train the baby to be the best. Not in the sense like academy or sports or activities to be the best. We were saying about living, to be meaningful in future and to be love. That why, I believe communication is very important. And it have to start now. Whatever I think, will actually effect the baby attitude.