Babies....

My nephew. He is 10 months old.

             Before when I looked at the baby, I got the feeling of rejection..... I scared they will scream and cry. Coz it will be very annoying and I hate those voice. The above photo is my nephew, his voice super loud. When he want something he will shout till U surrender and gave him everything he want. When I looked at him like that, M so worry that my kid will be like him. Even my hubby also started to get worry. We both looked at each other, and remind each other not to over spoil the baby. Always keep it on mind. We even plan how to communicate with the baby. Not too over protect the baby. This is how we survey thru other ppl baby.

Do u c the tear drop at the corner of his eyes? He don't like stranger that Y he start to "act" cry.

           2nd example we get from our family member. This is Jacky cousin baby. He is now 1 year plus. He scare of stranger and he will get irritating when crowded. He will force himself cry out loud to get his nanny or parent attention to get him out of here. The funny part is, when his nanny or parents hug him, he will definitely  wave his hand "bye bye" on the spot that he is leaving. But when he is not crowded, he will show his cool face. Why I say so? U know, when kids saw some funny reaction, they will laugh out loud or they will show funny face. He is different. He only show one face which is below one.

               No matter how hard u try to get him smile. He just show u the same mood which is "cool attitude." When my hubby and I saw his situation, we also get worry. I told my hubby, I want happy cute baby. Like to laugh and not afraid of stranger.  Hahaha... but my mother in law say, "Don't say that, whatever U don like it will become reality." So I better keep my mouth shut. Don't compare and judge coz I want something different. So what I will do, have more funny movie and cartoon where I can laugh out loud. Built up my cheerful attitude hope it will take effect on the baby.